Lady  Saved  By  Colorado  Safe  Haven  Wants  To  Thank  Mom  Who  Chose  Life  For  Her

Lady Saved By Colorado Safe Haven Wants To Thank Mom Who Chose Life For Her

By Anne Rowe for DPS board, March 19, 2019

Halle Burke is a freshman in a rural high school in Denver, Colorado. She has huge brown eyes and long dark hair, with a sweet character. She reminds me a lot of my niece. Unlike lots of teenagers, she doesn’t spray sentences with the word “like.” She takes time to answer questions, and she speaks with a level of consideration and deliberateness that is uncommon among teenagers. She is special in lots of methods, including being one of the very first safe haven children in Colorado.

Colorado enacted a Safe Haven law in 2000, which allows a mother to leave her newborn up to 72 hours old with personnel at a fire home or health center, no questions asked. As long as the infant is unhurt, no criminal charges will be filed.

The purpose of the Safe Sanctuary law is to prevent infant abandonment by allowing a woman to anonymously, legally, and safely hand over her infant so both the mom and kid will be safe. The mom won’t be prosecuted for “abuse or neglect of a child on the sole ground of abandonment if the desertion is in accordance with the safe sanctuary laws.” And the baby will be in safe hands, have access to instant medical care, and normally be quickly embraced into a caring household.

Halle’s Story

That’s precisely what Halle’s birth mom did. On February 15, 2003, three years after the passage of Colorado’s law, Halle’s birth mom took two-day-old Halle to Station 2 in Westminster, a northwest suburb of Denver. She left Halle in the hands of two firemens and walked away. The firefighters took Halle to a hospital close-by and called Adams County social services.

John and Julie Burke, a Denver couple, got a call about Halle and went to the medical facility as quick as they could. John told me when he and Julie walked into the nursery, he saw this child lady gaze at them with these big brown eyes, and they instantly fell in love with her. They adopted her and called her Halle, since in Julie’s words, “After doing fertility treatments for however long we did them, we were like ‘Hallelujuah, now we have a infant.’”

John and Julie created a loving family for Halle and 2 other children they embraced. They are really open with Halle about her birth story. Halle stated, “When I hear that story, I constantly think of hope.” Julie even composed a book about it: “Fire Station Child.”

But life can be harsh in some cases. When she was young, Halle often got teased by other kids for being adopted. Some kids said mean things such as “If your mommy loves you, she wouldn’t have left you.” Halle utilized to feel deeply hurt. But over the years, she has discovered to take pride in her birth story and is proud to present herself as a safe haven child.

Today, she likes to inform her story to whomever wants to listen because, to start with, it makes her feel special. Secondly, she hopes that by making public her story, she will one day find her “tummy mommy.”

In 2015, Halle was reunited with the 2 firefighters who accepted her from her birth mother. They informed Halle that she looks extremely much like her birth mother. Because then, Halle has imagined her. In her dreams, her stomach mommy likes bubble gum and  always dresses in ’80s design, with huge hair and huge hoop earrings.

I asked Halle what she desires to say to her birth mom when she fulfills her one day. Halle said she simply desires to make sure her birth mommy is fine, and that she desires to thank her.

In a video produced by Colorado Safe Haven for Babies about three years ago, Halle stated, “there’s a lot of women, individuals, who are afraid to have children and when they do they make bad options about it, but my stomach mommy made a really, actually good choice.” So Halle wants to thank her for being “brave” since her birth mother made sure Halle was left in safe hands so Halle might have a family and a “really great life.”

Since 2000, about 60 children like Halle have been conserved under Colorado’s Safe Sanctuary law. All 50 states have safe sanctuary laws on the books, although these laws vary from state to state in terms of the age limit and situations required to give up an baby. According to National Safe Sanctuary Alliance, about 3,600 safe haven infants nationwide have been conserved. However more infants could have actually been conserved had there been a higher awareness of the safe sanctuary laws.

In Colorado, there are several prominent cases involving terrible deaths of babies considering that the enactment of the Safe Sanctuary law, probably due to moms’ unawareness of the securities and options the law supplies.

Women Who Don’t Pick Life

In 2004, 29- year-old Erin Pendleton gave birth to a baby boy in a restroom at a Denver sports bar. She left her newborn to pass away in a plastic bag in the washroom’s trash can. She left the bar and went on drinking with her friends in a various bar.

A janitor found the body of the baby young boy the next day. An autopsy indicated the child young boy had actually been born alive but died of suffocation. Erin was sentenced to 40 years in prison after she pleaded guilty to the charge of child abuse resulting in death, a second-degree felony.

In 2017, 16- year-old Alaya Dotson gave birth to a infant lady in her household’s restroom. According to her statement to cops later, she didn’t even know she was pregnant till she provided the child. Here is what happened next: Dotson wrapped the infant in a blanket and took it to the backyard. She found a rock on the ground and “pushed the rock down the child’s throat with her thumb.”

Later, Dotson’s mom found the baby inside the blanket. She called 911 and the child was rushed to Colorado Children’s Health center. But the physicians couldn’t conserve the child. The Denver Office of the Medical Inspector ruled the death a homicide. Dotson was charged with first-degree murder and is still awaiting trial.

Linda Prudhomme, the executive director of Colorado Safe Sanctuary for Babies, commented on Doston’s case, “We can’t know what helplessness, worry, or embarassment would cause her to do such a horrible thing. We do understand that the Safe Haven Law would have actually provided her a humane option. And we do understand that she didn’t understand about this law.”

Colorado’s Safe Haven law took impact before most teenagers, consisting of Dotson, were born. No high schools in Colorado currently teach the Safe Haven Law. Halle informed me that none of her good friends had ever heard of the Safe Haven Law until she pointed out it.

“The Safe Haven Law can only work if the mother understands about it. And the just comprehensive method to reach ladies approaching child-bearing age is to talk about it in school,” said Prudhomme. That’s why Colorado Safe Haven for Babies supports a new bipartisan bill, SB 19 -025, sponsored by state Sen. Jim Smallwood, a Republican, and state Rep. Edie Hooton, a Democrat, which is presently under consideration in Colorado State Assembly. T

he costs states that any school that picks to supply a local comprehensive health education program should consist of in the school’s curriculum “information relating to state laws that provide for the safe abandonment of newborn kids to specific persons, consisting of firefighters and clinic or health center personnel, within 72 hours of birth.”

Halle testified at the Colorado State Capitol just recently to show her support for this new expense. She shared her story with legislators and there were no dry eyes left in the room by the time she ended up.

Offering Pregnant Mothers a Better Choice

Several blue states, consisting of New York, Virginia, and Vermont, are pushing for late-term abortion costs, which have been sold to the public as offering pregnant females who wear’t want their babies a option. These bills have actually gone so far as to enable a infant to die even after shipment as long as the infant’s birth mom shows she doesn’t want the baby.

But Halle has a various message to all pregnant females: “If you put on’t desire your infant, you have a choice. Please take them to a safe place. So your infant will discover a caring house and your baby will love you for what you did.”

Ladies, if you are pregnant and you wear’t desire your infant, you have a option. Please call toll totally free, 1-888-510-BABY (1-888-510-2229). Someone will answer any concerns you have, describe various state laws, and help you determine alternatives, 24/7.  The earlier you reach out for help, the more control you have throughout the procedure.

I asked Halle what she desires to do when she grows up. She stated she desires to be either a nurse who can assistance other people, or have a career in politics since she likes public speaking and dispute. I am particular that, whatever she picks to do in her future, she will be immensely successful. Please share Halle’s story as commonly as possible. Let’s aid Halle find her brave tummy mommy.